Born Beautifully Boundless Entry #5 Must do - Define stability, success, and worth for yourself. Why - If you let others/society define these words for you, you might find that you are still unhappy once you have obtained these things. What matters to the world does not mean it matters to you. How you define things will determine in which direction you should go. Perspective: I was taught that having a job, keeping it, and building from there was the stability I needed. So